Does he love or you are just a side chick?

Knowing if a man loves you or if you are a side chick can be confusing because a man may show you affection without having interest in you. There are some signs to look for; here are some of the most common signs that a man is truly in love with you:

Body language: If he loves you, his body language and behaviors will show it. He may lean towards you when you talk, make eye contact, and touch you affectionately.

Investment: If a man loves you, he will show that he wants to be your partner. He will be interested in your life and in your friends and family. He will find the right words for various situations and won’t play games but will give you a clear sign of how he feels.

Selfless acts: Small, selfless acts are true signs a man is falling in love and would do anything for you. He may go out of his way to do things for you or surprise you with thoughtful gestures.

Behavior: The best way to tell for sure that a man loves you is by watching his behavior. If he invests in you, prioritizes you, and takes action in life to demonstrate his affection, he probably loves you. Actions require time, investment, energy, and action–and they’re much more difficult to fake.

Communication: If a man truly loves you, he will talk about his feelings and won’t make big decisions without discussing them with you first.

Attention: If he’s always texting or calling you when you are apart, he probably can’t get enough of you. If his main goal is to make you happy, he clearly loves you.