Tips: Dos and Don’ts While In The Talking Stage

In the “talking stage” of a relationship, it’s important to set healthy boundaries and manage expectations. Here are some major dos and don’ts to consider:

Dos:

Manage your expectations: Remember that it’s still an early stage in the dating process, and you’re not committed to the other person yet. Avoid putting all your eggs in one basket and acting like a significant other to them.

Set healthy boundaries with your phone: Since a lot of the talking stage occurs on your phone, make sure you’re still present in the moment and not overly reliant on digital communication.

Be communicative: While it’s called the “talking stage,” true communication involves more than just talking. Make sure you’re truly understanding each other and expressing your thoughts and feeling.

Don’ts:

Don’t spend the night: Avoid spending the night during the talking stage, as it can make things feel more intimate and progressed than they probably are. It’s about protecting yourself and setting firm boundaries.

Don’t talk more than three months: If the other person refuses to establish any speed or dodges discussions about the future, it may indicate that they aren’t in it for the long run. It’s best to walk away if that’s not what you want.

Don’t say you want to be casual if you don’t want to be casual: Be honest about your intentions and avoid sending mixed signals.

Remember, the talking stage is a phase of getting to know each other without an official label, and it’s important to navigate it with care and respect for both yourself and the other person.